some people become more interested in people who ignore them

I’m writing this from a woman’s point of view, although the same can be said for men. I prefer to use the word ‘aloof’, rather than ‘ignore’.

Most women have found that when they are really not that into a man, some come on even stronger. Some even use that to their advantage, a ploy to gain a man’s attention.

Men are attracted to women who appear unavailable. Women who are aloof always seem to get the guy, because they exude self-confidence and an air of mystery. It’s also very seductive.

Men love a chase and they love mystery. With mystery, comes a sense of intrigue:

What is it about her?
Is this woman ‘the one’?
When a woman is aloof, men pursue her, because she isn’t acting like other women. Some even see her as a challenge.

Aloof women are successful at dating, because men don’t know what’s on their mind. They want to be the one who can get her to open up and unlock her deepest secrets.

But aloof can also be a protective wall to weed out men they don’t want to get to know  ...