Because you're one of a kind.
Because you're strong enough to love someone who have hurt you before even many times.
I can understand you know life is all about move on otherwise you hadn't asked this question. Friend sometimes in our life we stuck to things. Sometimes for good sometimes for bad. Maybe in your heart you are thinking that they will come back to you again but decided if they come back to you again can you trust them like before, are they not going to hurt you again. It has happened to me. I still believe in her but trust me it's hard much harder than anything. But you have all rights to love someone even if they betrayed you. But don't ever loose your self. Be yourself they will realise your worth and remember God is watching us.
Because you loved him.
You have invested a part of life and emotions on him. If you love him means you are respecting your choice, your time and your feelings. Well you realised he don’t deserve that, but as it is said,love is unconditional, you cannot help but love him.
It does not mean you should accept and take him back in your life. Everyone loves them more than others. So keep loving you more and others less.
We love our family, no matter what they does, i guess same may be the case with people we love. And definitely keep loving someone is best thing to happen, as you are free from negative emotions.
But as you are aware of betrayal, next time be cautious, alert and wise, love yourself more, avoid getting hurt. Love them always but keep them at distance to retain your peace and love always with you.
You're capable of loving people despite their erroneous behaviour.
Keep up the attitude! On the other hand, please don't punish yourself like this, by being with someone who has betrayed you. You deserve better.
Life is too short to waste!
Because you are not ready to lose them
Because you love them and still want them
Because you have emotions attached to them
Because you have not found the new one.The one which would understand you better
You still love them,which i think is normal But you have not moved on. How long do you want to stay there..??You need to accept that the relation has come to an end and you need to let go..Trust Me If someone has betrayed you in the past, you can Trust them to betray you again in the future...
N one thing the biggest mistake we do is loosing ourselves in the process of valuing someone too much and forgetting we are special too...???? Y !?
Remember the time when u were young and made some mistake. Inspite of your mistakes your parents forgave you,Ryt?
Life is long and you are young and there is a tym to kill today.
So try to understand the situation why he/she did it. Try to put yourself in there shoe’s.
Give them another chance things will work out.
Its always better to live with facts rather with regrets.
Because you are one kind of person which is hard to find, you are giving justification for your love whereas same should be in return as well, atleast not hurting!
Understand the fact that life has to moveon, this is not everything, it's one good lesson in book of life, turn the page there is a new chapter waiting.
It may be for two reasons
She was your first love
You dont have confidence about yourself that you will find a girl equivalent if not better than her.
My friend I would suggest life is short, move on
Because as a survival mechanism, there’s a part of our emotions that doesn’t remember the bad things nearly as explicitly — well most of them — as the good, and consequently, even if someone has been a walking yutz, we keep hoping against hope that please, pretty please the person will change their behavior. And unfortunately many of those walking yutzes have learned that if they’re nice part of the time, even if it’s not even 50% of the time, we go into overdrive trying to get them to be nice again. So this is a case where you need to let your logic, your good friends, and anything else, including your enthusiasm for some new activities, that will protect you from this syndrome take you away. My experience is that once someone has betrayed you and gotten away with it, unless there was some highly unusual circumstance and lots of therapy, they’ll do it again, and again…
Because you are still In you comfort zone.!
Meet new ppl , love can happens twice :) don't worry and second time it's more powerful than the first trust me :)
U deserve good :) find happiness in whether you like doing :)
it's a difficult emotion but one actually needs to put in a lot of effort and let go. It's a state of mind. When you are in your next relation (I'm sincerely sure you will be), return to this question, you'll get your answer.
Because you still can't forget the way they treated you before you knew about the betrayal. And it's a fact you can't unlove someone, can you?
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