When someone stares at you, it is usually just because of 5 things.
1) They're not even staring at you.
This happens almost 50, scratch that, 70 percent of the time. Look around you.
Is there a beautiful flower?
Or a pretty lady?
Are you wearing bright red clothes? If not, well, maybe they're just deep in thought and staring into space... which happens to be right beside your head.
At the most, they probably have some weird neck fetish and are staring at your neck.
You never know.
Nope, not the pretty lady. It's the mean teacher standing behind her.
2) There's something on you.
Check again.
Is there leftovers of food in your mouth?
Did your annoying sibling draw on your face with a marker?
Is there blood on your ass? No shame, it happens every month.
If you suspect something's wrong, then know two things. Firstly, there is something called a camera function in your phone. Secondly, you can always flag the nearest person down to check your backside.
3) They are trying to make you uncomfortable.
I have to admit. I am very guilty of this one. There are times when I just stare into a stranger's eyes and see how long I can hold their eye contact. Usually, many quickly shift their sight to somewhere else once they realize I'm not going to move my eyeballs. And they usually get mildly uncomfortable or severely creeped out by it. Hey, it's fun seeing their reactions
4) They find you repulsive
Check:
Is there any rumors going on about you?
Are they staring at you and whispering?
If they are...then Oh My God, something's wrong! Quickly walk towards that person, show them your middle finger, and give them a piece of your mind. Or you can walk off like the boss you are.
5) They like you and/or find you attractive.
This one is the rarest, but ironically we all think that this is the most common reason. It's not. And anyways, I don't think I need to explain why someone would stare at you if they like you. They just...like you. Their brain makes some fuzzy connections between their heart and mind. So the eyeballs are instructed by the brain to follow your every movement. The sensors in your eye then translate the information to the brain which then relays it to the heart...which then builds up some weird fantasies of its own.
So here it is. The most probable reason why that person is staring at you is because, well, they aren't even staring at you at all.
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